Our Marriage Wasn’t Perfect — But It Was Worth Pampering

A true story of healing, hope, and a love that still says “yes.”

We didn’t write Pamper Your Marriage because we had the perfect marriage. We wrote it because we learned — the hard way — how to surrender a very imperfect one.

Between us, we have walked through blended family struggles, financial strain, unmet expectations, and moments of total disconnect. We know what it is like to feel unheard, unseen, and unsure how to fix what is unraveling.

But we also know what it’s like when God steps in.

This journey started during a season of deep soul work — a year of spiritual detox. We prayed. We fasted. We forgave. We let God heal wounds we did not even have words for. And day by day, the Lord began to teach us how to love again. Not with empty words or surface fixes, but with humility, intentionality, and tenderness.

That’s how Pamper Your Marriage was born.

It is not about bubble baths and spa days (although we love those too). It is about the kind of pampering that soothes your soul, stirs up joy, and restores what’s been wounded. It is about letting the Lord treat your marriage the way He treats His Bride—with grace, truth, and relentless love.

We are not here to impress you. We are here to walk beside you — and say, “You are not alone.”

Let this be the beginning of your healing journey.

“He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” – Psalm 147:3